Almost everyone who has ever gone through the sample ICF Credentialing Exam questions may resonate with this: it is not that difficult for most certified coaches to pick the BEST answer, but how to pick the WORST answer? Why are some answers WORSE than others, if a few of them seem pretty bad or equally bad?

Although we do not have direct guidelines from the ICF about that, we have tried to deconstruct some of the principles that can help to weight “bad” answers against each other and identify the worst. This article would be helpful to coaches who are preparing for their ICF Credentialing Exam at PCC/MCC level.
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While no formal “ranking” is published, certain behaviors are treated as more serious ethical violations, based on:
- How explicitly they are prohibited (e.g., Code of Ethics violations)
- Whether they involve harm or breach of trust
- Whether they fall under “must not” rules vs. more subtle coaching misalignments.
Here’s the perspective we share with our students at UpThink Coaching. Again, this is a summary of our speculations based on experience, observations and knowledge of the ICF Core Coaching Competencies, ICF Core Values as well as the ICF Code of Ethics, and not an official “algorithm” from the ICF. Please, use your own best judgment while choosing the best/worst answer during the actual Credentialing Exam.
What Makes an Answer the WORST Answer Overall? (Based on the Sample Credentialing Exam Questions Provided by the ICF):
Worst answers often violate client autonomy or disempower the client.
- Example: “Praise the client for meeting the project deadlines, but ask why the client failed to support their team members’ development.”
- Explanation: This imposes judgment and introduces blame, which violates Core Competency 4 (Cultivates Trust and Safety) and fails to respect the client’s autonomy and ownership over their choices.
Worst answers withhold transparency or clarity, especially regarding conflicts of interest
- Example: “Not say anything. Try to keep their role as an investor in a competing business separate from their role as a coach.”
- Explanation: This represents a clear breach of ethical transparency and fails to recognize potential bias or conflict (violates Core Competency 1. The Code of Ethics).
Worst answers introduce coach agenda, bias, or advice, rather than inquiry or partnership
- Example: “Remind the client that they have achieved extremely challenging goals in the past and can meet this big goal, too.”
- Explanation: This dismisses the client’s current emotional state and shifts focus from inquiry to reassurance or motivation, which introduces the coach’s agenda and may show lack of presence (violates Core Competency 5) or sensitivity (violates Core Competencies 2 and 4).
Worst answers ignore or misread the coaching context (such as ending vs. beginning, client state, or power dynamics)
- Example: “Suggest to the client that they extend their coaching engagement to work toward a new goal of being promoted…”
- Explanation: This disregards the context of a closing session and may introduce a sales or coach-driven agenda (violates Core Competency 1 and the Code of Ethics).

Worst answers ignore or bypass the client’s current emotional reality
Explanation: This disregards a significant emotional moment. Ignoring that emotional opening erodes trust and misses a powerful opportunity to deepen awareness. Looks like the coach is following their own agenda (against Core Competency 2 and 5) and such behavior may potentially damage trust. (violates Core Competency 4)
Example: “Pause for a moment, then ask the client to identify the remaining plans they would like to focus on today.”
- Worst answers jump to problem-solving without reflection, awareness, or processing
- Example: “Ask the client to identify some steps they can take to overcome the anxieties they wrote about.”
- Explanation: This prematurely jumps into action before deepening the reflection or processing, which could break rapport, especially with a client who is slow to open up. Coach does not demonstrate Core Competency 7.
- Worst answers redirect the conversation without client input
- Example: “Ask the client to begin with the major event they are planning at work, since they mentioned it first.”
- Explanation: This imposes a structure on the session that the client has not agreed to, violating the principle of co-creating session focus. Violates Core Competency 3.
- Worst answers introduce coach assumptions about what is best or appropriate
- Example: “Repeat the question to the client to give them another opportunity to respond…”
- Explanation: This fails to attune to the emotional shift in the moment and implies the coach thinks the question was fine as-is, instead of being responsive, present and allowing the client to determine the session direction. Violates Core Competency 5.

What If There Are Some Competing Options?
What should a coach do when several behaviors seem equally problematic? We recommend distinguishing between clear “must not do” actions (those that violate ethical obligations, e.g. harm the coach-client relationship, compromise the coach’s integrity, or damage the credibility of the profession) and poor practices that, while unprofessional or less effective, cause little real harm.
The Code of Ethics says “If I breach any part of the ICF Code of Ethics, I agree that ICF in its sole discretion may hold me accountable for so doing. I further agree that my accountability to ICF for any breach may include sanctions, such as mandatory additional coach training or other education, or loss of my ICF Membership and / or my ICF Credential”. (The Pledge of Ethics from the ICF Code of Ethics , p. 7)
The Insights and Considerations for Ethics document says “the distinction between “avoiding bad” and “doing good” serves as a guiding principle for ICF Professionals in their ethical decision-making” (p. 37).
Our Ranking of Worst Behaviors (from worst to least severe)
1. Breaching Confidentiality ( we see it as most severe, as this makes coaching unsafe and may potentially harm or damage several parties). Except the situations when the Code of Ethics allows to disclose information to avoid greater harm.
Why: Explicitly prohibited in multiple ethics standards. Confidentiality is central to coaching trust. Evidence:
- “Maintain the strictest levels of confidentiality with all parties as agreed upon….” (Code of Ethics. Section I – Responsibility to Clients. Standards 3, 4, 5)
- “When working as an Internal Coach, manage conflicts of interest or potential conflicts of interest with my coaching Client(s) and Sponsor(s) through coaching agreement(s) and ongoing dialogue.” (Code of Ethics. Section I – Responsibility to Clients, point 6)
- “Confidentiality is foundational to the coaching relationship.” (Insights and Considerations for Ethics (ICE for standard 2.1), p.6).
- “Maintain the privacy of ICF Members…” (Code of Ethics. Section II – Responsibility to Practice and Performance, Standard 19).
Example behaviors in scenarios: sharing private information with sponsors or third parties without consent, revealing sensitive mental health data.
2. Lying or Misleading Clients. Mixing Modalities.
Why: Dishonesty damages trust, which is the foundation of the coaching relationship. Evidence:
- “Make verbal and written statements that are true and accurate…” (Code of Ethics Section III – Responsibility to Professionalism, Standard 21)
- “Identify accurately my coaching qualifications, my level of coaching competency, expertise, experience, training, certifications and ICF Credentials.” (Code of Ethics Section III – Responsibility to Professionalism, Standard 20)
- “Maintains the distinctions between coaching, consulting, psychotherapy and other support professions.” (Core Competency 1.6)
- “As an ICF Professional, I am honest and work within recognized scientific standards, applicable subject guidelines and boundaries of my competence…” (Code of Ethics Section IV – Responsibility to Society, Standard 27).
Example behaviors in scenarios: hiding information intentionally, providing inaccurate reports, misrepresentation of coach’s education, credential status or professional experience, calling therapeutic interventions “coaching”.
- Not Disclosing or Not Addressing Conflicts of Interest
Why: Breach of the Code of Ethics. Evidence:
- “Resolve any conflict of interest or potential conflict of interest by working through the issue with relevant parties.” (Code of Ethics, Section II – Responsibility to Practice and Performance, Standard 18).
- “When working as an Internal Coach, manage conflicts of interest or potential conflicts of interest with my coaching Client(s) and Sponsor(s) through coaching agreement(s) and ongoing dialogue” (Code of Ethics, Section I – Responsibility to Clients, Standard 6)
- “When you notice a potential conflict of interest (Standard 3.1), Standard 3.2 offers you guidance about how to respond to, and manage, the potential conflict/s of interest ethically.” (Insights and Considerations for Ethics, pp. 16-25)
Example behaviors in scenarios: being an investor in a competitor company and failing to inform a client, ignoring implications of multiple agreements or relationships, lack of clear boundaries.
- Avoiding Conversations / Neglecting, Confronting Client Defensively or Withdrawing from Client
Why: Violates Core Values of Humanity and Equity. Core Values serve as the foundation for the ICF Code of Ethics. Neglects coach’s responsibility to maintain a coaching mindset, explore and understand the needs of others, being humane, kind, compassionate, and respectful toward others. Evidence:
- “Remains aware of and open to the influence of context and culture on self and others.” (Competency 2.4)
- “Develops and maintains the ability to regulate one’s emotions.” (Competency 2.6)
- “Shows support, empathy and concern for the client.” (Competency 4.4)
- Demonstrates confidence in working with strong client emotions during the coaching process (Competency 5.4)
Example behaviors in scenarios: telling client their feelings or emotions are less/not significant, redirecting the conversation to avoid emotions, ignoring shifts in energy, avoiding feedback loops, confronting the client.
- Disruption of Client Autonomy / Taking Over Decisions / Directing the Process
Why: The coach takes control of decisions, goals, or the process, undermining the client’s agency. This behavior misrepresents the nature of coaching as defined by ICF and can subtly erode trust and self-efficacy over time. Evidence:
- “The Coaching Relationship must operate at the level of equality, where the ICF Professional and Client share equal responsibility for the coaching partnership”. (ICE for Standard 4.1, p.31)
- “ICF Professionals take care not to transfer their personal values system to clients but rather uphold the autonomy of the client to conduct themselves with reference to the client’s value system.” (ICE for Standard 3.5, p. 23)
- “Acknowledges that clients are responsible for their own choices.” (Competency 2.1)
- “Continues coaching in the direction of the client’s desired outcome unless the client indicates otherwise.” (Competency 3.10)
- “Acknowledges and supports client autonomy in the design of goals, actions and methods of accountability.” (Competency 8.3)
Example behaviors in scenarios: pushing the coach’s advice or values, telling the client what to do without asking about their needs/wants, steering the client toward what the coach thinks is a “better” goal, overusing coach-driven frameworks or interpretations.
- Lack of Partnership or Co-Creation
Why: Undermines co-creation but does not involve harm or dishonesty. The coach fails to co-create the coaching process, skipping invitations, emotional cues, or the client’s voice but not necessarily imposing a direction. Evidence:
- “As an ICF Professional, I am aware of and actively manage any power or status difference between the Client and me…” (Code of Ethics, Section I – Responsibility to Clients, Standard 11)
- “Partners with the client to identify or reconfirm what they want to accomplish in the session.” (Competency 3.6)
- “Partners with the client to define what the client believes they need to address or resolve…” (Competency 3.7)
- “Partners with the client to manage the time and focus of the session.” (Competency 3.9)
- “Adjusts the coaching approach in response to the client’s needs.” (Competency 7.7)
- “Shares observations, insights and feelings, without attachment…” (Competency 7.11)
Example behaviors in scenarios: choosing the topic for the client, redirecting without asking, skipping client’s emotional cues to push for solutions.
- Minor Misalignment with Competencies
Why: May reduce impact but not ethical misconduct per se. Examples:
- Delayed update to session agreement. Clarity and expectations may drift, but trust may remain intact.
- Occasional leading questions. The coach can unintentionally steer the client but often comes from a helpful intent.
- Subtle assumptions about client beliefs, e.g. the coach unconsciously assumes a client shares similar values or beliefs, such as a goal-setting style, views on productivity, etc. This can be corrected with awareness and cultural humility.
- The coach applies the same tool or process across clients without checking if it suits their context or learning style. It limits personalization but isn’t unethical or harmful on its own.
- Mild over-focusing on goals over exploration. The client may still progress, though some nuance or insight may be lost.
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Luba Diasamidze PhD, PCC

Luba has been training and mentoring coaches extensively since 2020. She is a Certified Mentor Coach (CMC) and a Coaching Supervisor. Luba is trained in PCC Markers Assessment by the ICF and does performance evaluation at UpThink Coaching’s ICF Accredited Programs.
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